Can you go back?

Thomas Wolfe said, “You can’t go home again?” I wonder if this is universally true, can you go back to the person you once loved? Can you rekindle the flame and feelings? You fell in love once with person, though it was long ago and perhaps what you were looking for then and now have changed. Can you fall in love with that person again?

What happened to the two of you was nothing tragic or dramatic, no rehab clinics or trips to the emergency room. Over a couple of years it just happened, you fell out of love. It was a long and tedious process falling out of love; the falling in love was easy and seemed to happen overnight. Can you go back? Have you changed so much that you no longer can love this person? He is comforting and safe and knows everything about you, and is that enough? Oh and he loves you still, which is very intoxicating.